Dating Mistake #7 - SLACKING ON YOUR LOOKS
from "Top 10 Dating Don’ts"
Your Most Important Relationship Questions Answered
By Maureen Salamon, Special to Lifescript
Published February 06, 2011
Mistake #7: Slacking on your looks
No, he shouldn’t expect you to look picture-perfect 24/7. But morphing into a sloppy, un-showered version of your attractive self is a dating no-no.
Dating tip: “Hanging out in sweats with no makeup, going to sleep in flannel PJs, or not keeping your legs smooth are things that guys notice,” Lieberman says.
Women also tend to drop their personal upkeep after becoming secure in a relationship.
“They tell themselves that it’s irrelevant because ‘a guy loves me for me,’” she explains. “But the message they’re giving is [a man] is not important enough to make an effort for.”
MY THOUGHTS
uh-oh! never thought of it that way. i thought men like to see the natural "us'. but i will have to agree with the author here. try to remember how you feel when the man-in-your-life exerts the effort to look good for you. unless you're the paranoid, jealous type who will see this the wrong you.
you don't need to go to the parlor every time you have a date with your guy. you probably don't need to spend hours putting on false eye lashes. it's a simple as normal upkeep - brushing your teeth, combing your hair, clean clothes. nothing fancy. simple things that will tell your man he is not in love with a trash can.
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